If he wanted to be with you, he will be. Stop trying!

If he wanted to be with you, he will be. Stop trying!

Over the course of our dating life, we have learned an important lesson about what love is;

If it’s right, if it’s meant to be, the man you’re in love with right now will come back around.

It’s understandable. I mean, there is a lot at stake when we put our heart on the line and  we can end up wasting months or years of our life on a man who never intended to keep us around and the aftermath of these situations is never pretty.

Firstly, in the 21st century, it’s really hard to lose touch with people.

Secondly, men don’t forget about the women they fall hard for. Especially if the relationship ended on positive, benevolent terms.

Give yourself the gift of living your life.

So, if you’re struggling to let go of someone that you potentially see yourself with in the future, the relationship isn’t working out because he isn’t ready or he isn’t giving you what you want, do yourself a favor and let him go gracefully.

Maybe you’ll get over this in weeks, maybe months, maybe longer. It will hurt, some days will be horrible and some will be okay. But the smallest of silver linings is this: you can let your heart break once – instead of breaking it a million times by convincing yourself that he’s making a mistake or he probably misses you or you should call him. Love yourself enough to be hard on yourself.


Fareeha Imdad

Assistant Editor/ Columnist, Existentialist, Shopaholic, Feminist killjoy, fareehaimdad9@gmail.com

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