Canadian vlogger Rosie Gabrielle, who recently confirmed her wedding with Pakistani travel vlogger Adeel Amer, revealed on Wednesday that she married her ‘perfect person’ and ‘best friend’.
Sharing loved-up photo from their wedding, Rosie shared a lengthy note with caption “I MARRIED MY BEST FRIEND.”
She wrote, “In life, people search for ‘perfect soulmate’. Their expectation for perfection ranges from looks, financial stability, to social/societal influence. They want that ‘perfect Hollywood romance’ & happy ever after. With this vision & expectation in ones mind of what perfection looks like, they miss out on the opportunity & moment right in front of them. Because they won’t be happy until they find x,y,z.”
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The Canadian vlogger further said “So when they meet someone, they will never be ‘good enough’ there is always something you will want to change about that person because they don’t fit your mould. You will never be truly happy or satisfied & constantly looking for the day when they change.”
“But perfection doesn’t lie in these material superficial things. It doesn’t happen one day when things get “better”.
Perfection is in the NOW
“It’s loving someone for all that they are, RIGHT NOW. It’s supporting them through the bad times and flowing with them through the good. It’s not wanting to change who they are, it’s recognizing WHO THEY ARE underneath it all. It’s being each other’s light when the path gets dark, and embracing each and every moment as it passes enjoying THAT MOMENT; without fear of the past or anxiety for the future, and not focusing on the “perfect selfie” to post. Because perfection isn’t the moment captured, it IS the moment.”
“It’s focusing on the connection between each soul and allowing that to be the essence which draws your near, which is the part you fall in love with over and over.”